Lifebuilder New Edition 4 - 13/10/2006

                Create a Life of Balanced Success

 
                                                                    QUOTE OF THE WEEK

                                     
"I want to know the thoughts of God; the rest are details." - Albert Einstein 


Hi 

Welcome to the fourth edition of the new Lifebuilder! In this edition, we talk about what you feed your body and your mind, and why most 'love' relationships are dysfunctional and become 'love-hate' relationships. There is also news about a
freë 'Power Hour' talk on Tuesday the  of October in Sandton on how to 'Ride the Wild Tiger of Change', and, if you are in any kind of job or business that requires selling (and like it or not, everyone working in any business is in sales), you will also be interested in an exciting Sales Superstar Seminar coming up later this month. Enjoy!


Contents

      (Click any of the above links to go directly to that section)


Events


Fre
ë 'Power Hour' Talk - How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection

Date: Tuesday, 3 October
Time: 6 - 7 p.m.
Venue: Main Auditorium, FNB Conference Centre, 114 Grayston Drive, Sandton

The talk is being given by Andrew Smith, an expert salesman and sales trainer with 20 years of experience in sales and over 9 years in sales training, click here and send the email that pops up.


Sales Superstar Seminar - Transform Yourself and Your Team into Sales Superstars!

Date: Wednesday, 25 October
Time: 9 a.m. - 4.30 p.m.
Venue: Killarney Country Club, 60 5th Street, Houghton, Johannesburg

This seminar will transform you and your sales team into Sales Superstars by showing them how to overcome fear, how to think out-of-the-box and how to use advanced sales techniques to get the edge and set them apart from the hordes of average sales people out there.

Jonathan Quail
from Lifebuild and Andrew Smith, a top salesman and sales trainer with 20 years of experience in sales and over 9 years in sales training, will be the speakers at the seminar. Click here to read more about the seminar now.

 



The Missing Truth


If you have ever read and listened to material on how to be a success and had the feeling that there was something missing, but couldn't pinpoint exactly what this 'Missing Truth' is and want to know, click here.


Body


"Garbage in, garbage out." - Unknown


Would you put sugar in your car's fuel tank? No, because you know that the engine would seize and it would cost you a small fortune and cause you great inconvenience to have your car fixed. Then why do you choose to put sugar and various other foods that ultimately cause your own 'engine', your body, to seize and costs you a lot more than your car to fix, if the damage can be fixed at all? The food we choose to eat has a huge impact on the way we feel and perform, as it is the fuel for our bodies and minds, so choose wisely. The problem is that we are not always sure what the wise way to eat is, as there are so many conflicting ideas and opinions out there about diet. Your body will always tell you what is good and bad for it, but we are not always tuned into our bodies and so we need some guidance to start with. Try eating the way we suggest below for a week and monitor the difference in your mood, energy level and performance compared with your normal states. Unless you are eating this way already, we can promise that you will be astonished at the difference!

Exercise

At every meal or snack, cut out all starches (bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, maize, etc.) and replace them with a bowl of cooked oatmeal or oat bran (at breakfast) or double the quantity of fruit and / or vegetables (at lunch and dinner). Also have a decent portion of protein (a portion of low-fat meat that would just cover the palm of your hand, for example) and some monounsaturated fat (provided by olive oil, nuts and avocadoes) at every meal. Do not let more than 5 hours pass between meals or snacks, have 3 main meals and 2 snacks during the day and pay close attention to your energy levels in the times between meals. Give us your feedback on how you felt during the week by clicking here and sending the email that pops up.  

To find out more detailed information about the eating plan on which the exercise above is based, click here


Mind  

The mind, like the body, needs to be regularly exercised to stay sharp and in shape. However, most of us allow the mind's muscles to become flabby and out of shape through lack of use, or use in the wrong way, contributing to Alzheimers, senile dementia and other mental disorders that afflict so many in our society as they get older. Do some or all of the following exercises and practices regularly to make sure the  the saw of your mind stays sharp and you are never afflicted by one of these diseases. 

Exercises

  • Instead of writing names, numbers or lists of things to do down, make a conscious effort to remember them using mnemonics or other memory aids 
  • Read a well-written book in which you don't understand all the words for 15 minutes every day, and look up the words you don't understand in a dictionary (try 'The Name of the Rose' by Umberto Eco if you are really looking to expand your vocabulary!)
  • Complete a Sudoku puzzle once a week

Heart and Soul

"Unless and until you access the consciousness frequency of presence, all relationships, and particularly intimate relationships, are deeply flawed and ultimately dysfunctional." - Eckhart Tolle (from the 'Power of Now')

Are you experiencing or have you experienced a dysfunctional love relationship, which seemed perfect for a while, but degenerated over time? And are you still seeking for that perfect relationship that will transform your life and make you happy forever? The truth is that no relationship can make you happy or save you from your own self-created misery. In fact, if your partner is also unhappy and expecting the relationship to save them from their unhappiness, which is quite likely, as we tend to attract people at the same level of consciousness as ourselves, it will only magnify the unhappiness and the relationship will become increasingly dysfunctional over time. Only when you become happy yourself can you attract and enjoy a relationship that blossoms over time with a like-minded person. So how do you just be happy yourself in such an unhappy world? That's not something we can tell you how to be in one sentence, but we can suggest reading a life-changing book called 'The Power of Now' from which the quote above was taken. Click here to buy this mind-blowing book now, or here for more information on Eckhart Tolle and his work. 

We hope you enjoyed this edition of Lifebuilder and it has given you some useful information and practical suggestions you can use to improve your life. If you didn't enjoy it and would rather unsubscribe, click the unsubscribe link below. If you did and would like to give us your feedback on it, click here and send the email that pops up. Until next time, be Balanced!

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